GAMES FOR DEPRESSED COUPLES – GAME 3: MASSAGE POKER (PART 6)

The husband continues to give the inner massage until the wife reaches orgasm, or until she says she has had enough (she may not be able to reach orgasm this time around).

After the massage, the husband asks the wife to speak about her thoughts and feelings during the massage, encouraging her to be honest about any negativity that might have crept in.

This game can be repeated many times, with as many variations as the imaginations and inhibitions of the lovers allow, with ever-increasing results. However, because depressed couples are likely to be quite sexually blocked, results will be gradual. If done with caring, though, the game will be beneficial to both giver and receiver, the former getting in touch with his or her creative energy and learning to truly care about and give to his or her spouse (toward whom he or she may have been resentful or emotionally distancing), and the latter getting in touch with his or her body tension and emotional blocks (which kept him or her captive to depression). (Note: When the female is the massage-giver, she follows the same procedure.)

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